Jeff's Journey will be a place where family and friends can come to get updates on our dad's condition and progress. We have a long road ahead of us and we hope that this blog can serve not only as a place for updates but also as a journal of strength and remembrance. We have faith in our Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ and we know that through our faith and perseverance our dad will be healed. Though we have been told that the chances are slim (1 in 200,000) that our dad will walk again, we will be by his side to help him beat those odds. Our dad will make it through this challenging trial and we will be there to help him every step of the way! We love you DAD & GRANDPA!!

Saturday, November 21, 2015

Day 87, Wednesday Nov. 18

Day 87, Wednesday Nov. 18

Today was business as usual. Therapy went well and Jeff worked hard. More and more of his time is being spent preparing for his homecoming. 

They worked to set things up for the medical supply vendor to bring them the things they will be needing once they are home. This will include supplies to care for Jeff's suprapubic catheter. 

Annette says, "We are just trying to get all our ducks in a row." 

A woman named Natalie came to see Jeff and Annette today. She was a previous patient on the floor with a similar injury. As they were talking the subject of muscle atrophy came up. Natalie hasn't experienced as much atrophy in her legs as expected. She told them that it's because she's been using a standing chair for a couple of hours a day. 

Jeff's good friend Brad Frost came to stay with him tonight so Annette could go home. It's great for Jeff to have that distraction when so much is weighing on his mind. We are grateful for everyone who helps provide that reprieve. 

We ask you all to please pray with us that this transition will go smoothly. There is a lot of anxiety mixed with a pinch of fear for this next big step for Jeff and our family. We will need all the help we can get in the days to come. 

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Day 86, Tuesday Nov. 17

Day 86, Tuesday Nov. 17

Jeff only got about an hour and a half of sleep last night. With his hands, feet, and butt hurting so bad it was difficult for him to relax. He took a pain pill in the early morning and while it took the sharp out of the pins and needles sensation, he still hurt and felt pressure to those areas. 

Thankfully he felt better when he woke up. Instead of the pain he only felt fuzzy all over. While it's still a little uncomfortable, it's tolerable. He almost took a nap twice today, but Annette managed to keep him awake. 

In PT he worked on strengthening, balancing, and stretching. In OT he worked with a different shower chair, learning how to get in and out, etc. After giving it a lot of thought they decided it would be beneficial to buy another shower chair (that goes inside an average bathtub) to take with them when they travel. 

They are specifically thinking about when they go to St. George to stay in Jay and Peggy's home. Jeff said it was difficult and a lot of work practicing with this type of chair. It isn't practical for every day use. They are even discussing taking the bathroom lift with them to make it easier to use the chair. 

Jay and Peggy came by to visit today. Peggy has been working so hard to get every claim submitted to the insurance. There is a lot of paperwork involved and she's donated a lot of time to make sure it all gets done. We are so grateful to her for everything she does to help our dad and our family! 

Between everything, Jeff and Annette were able to work on book work, bills, and invoices today. They got a lot done. They also arranged for the wheelchair rep to come and look at the power chair Jeff bought. They are hoping to get an estimate on what it will take to tune it up and fix it. 

Jeff's friend Max came to stay with him tonight so Annette could go home. Jeff loves spending time with his old riding buddies and reminiscing on the good times they've had together. We are grateful Max gave his time tonight to be at the hospital! 

In exactly one week our dad will be coming home.  So many emotions surround this day it's difficult to describe. It will be nice to get in a routine that doesn't include a commute for Annette every day. It will be a stress and a relief to have control over the medications he is taking. 

There are still so many details to be taken care of before he can come home. We feel the clock ticking and yet are full of anticipation at the same time. 

We have so much to be grateful for; most especially the incredible strength of our mom and dad. They seem to be giving us the strength we lack to deal with what's happened. Having our dad home will certainly be a challenge. However, we know without a doubt that together, and with our Heavenly Father's help, we'll make it through the days ahead. 

Monday, November 16, 2015

Day 85, Monday Nov 16

Day 85, Monday Nov 16

Today was good and bad. It started with Jeff's hands tingling and uncomfortable. The sensation spread to all over the paralyzed part of his body and he felt just like he does when he naps. In the afternoon he said his butt was burning as if he hadn't moved for over two days. 

Julee came for most of the day. Between therapy sessions Annette was able to go to lunch with her good friend Janene. 

In physical therapy Jeff worked really hard. He did transfers, turns, strengthening, and stretching. His sense of humor remained intact through the entire session even though he didn't feel well. 


After being praised by his PT Jeff responded, "By the way, I have my turtle shell on today, too!"


In order to pull himself to a sitting position they have what's called a "bed latter" that ties to the bottom of the bed. 


Jeff loops his arm through the hole he wants and then pulls himself up. They put an actual mattress on the therapy bench to help him practice a more realistic scenario. It put a lot of strain on his shoulders, but he did really well! 


When discussing what he now calls the "nap syndrome" he said, "I feel crappy and I didn't even get the nap. It's not fair!" His voice got high pitched and we all got a good laugh. We are so grateful he can joke about the struggles he's going through. 

He worked with long rubber ropes with knots tied in them. They put the first knot over the door and then closed it so he could pull against them in place of weights. This helps save space and money. The different color bands have different amounts of resistance. 


Between the knots is where Jeff puts his hands in order to pull the bands. It was difficult for him to maneuver them how he wanted and he said, "It's when I'm doing things like this that I really feel like a handicap. I can't even get my hand in the hole, dude."


For the sake of saving time and because his patience was already tried enough at this point, Julee helped open the holes between the knots for him to put his hands through. He worked out his arms until they were too sore to continue. 

Then it was lunch time. This morning's schedule was thrown off by a doctor coming in to discuss Jeff's medications and how to help him sleep better at night. We hope the changes they made will make a good difference! 

Because of this delay a few things had to be put off. After lunch he finally got a chance to shave. 


The weather was really strange today. We were hoping to have some snow, but it didn't end up doing much in the valley. The picture below kind of shows how the valley was socked in. The mountains and benches sure looked pretty with the low lying clouds and snow! 


After lunch was occupational therapy. Jeff worked on several dexterity exercises. The goal was to use any method (with hands only) to do the different tasks. Jeff gets pretty creative and is really patient when doing these activities. 

Jeff worked with putting pegs in and out of holes on a foam board and putting foam shapes back in their home. 


He had to pick up wooden pegs and clothes pins and put them in a glass jar. 


And he even played dominoes with the OT, Annette, and Julee. 


After this the OT worked to adjust Jeff's shower chair so it was a little higher. We are hoping it will help so Annette won't have to bend over as far. Jeff knew what needed to be done and was frustrated that he couldn't do it himself. It took the OT and Julee a little bit to figure out what he was explaining and execute his directions. The job was finally done and occupational therapy was over. 

Back to the room and Annette and Julee helped Jeff into bed. He worked hard and was ready for a rest. 

A guy named Matt, a previous patient with a C6 injury, came with his girlfriend to visit Jeff. They are from Kaysville. It was great to see someone in a similar situation doing so well. He was injured this past March. 

Then it was dinner and Bonnie came to stay so Annette could go home. She's been such a help to come spend time with Jeff so often! We are so grateful to her. 

Good news for today is the culture from Jeff's urine last week only grew a regular bacteria that resides on the skin and they determined that Jeff doesn't have a UTI after all. They stopped his antibiotic and got a new urine sample to see how it looks now. The CT came back negative for kidney stones, just as we had hoped. 

Thank you all for keeping Jeff in your prayers, we know it makes a difference! We hope and pray that the next week is as successful as today before he goes home, but without his nerves freaking out. It was obvious that his muscles wouldn't work at their fullest capacity today because of the nerve issues. Tomorrow will be better! 



Sunday, November 15, 2015

Day 84, Sunday Nov. 15

Day 84, Sunday Nov. 15

Today was a busy day! In the morning Jeff and Annette attended the sacrament service offered at the hospital. 

Afterward it was field trip time! It started a little rough when the nurse neglected to explain the medications Annette was to administer and fill out the proper paperwork for their outing, but it didn't ruin the day in the least. 

Jeff and Annette went with Randy, Jeff's brother, to look at a power chair in Highland. They were unsure if it was what they needed, but were prepared to buy it if it was. We are so happy to say that it's his now! With Randy's help they brought it home. 

The controls are on the opposite side and will need to be moved, and a few other minor changes and upgrades need to be made. Otherwise it will work perfectly. We are so grateful that things seem to be coming together so well. 

Jeff and Annette then went home and relaxed until all the kids showed up for spaghetti dinner. It is so nice for him to be able to rest on the couch at home! 



Zach used the transfer board, with Annette coaching him, to get Jeff into his new chair. They did a great job! 





We used twisty noodles today instead of long ones so it was easier for Jeff to stab with his fork. 




The other grandkids are at the bar eating dinner because our growing family can't fit at the table. They like to eat together so it works out great. 

After dinner Jeff's friend Jess came to visit. They had a great time talking while Ryan worked to fix the tv in the living room. 



After over an hour of investigating they think one of the wires in the wall was accidentally cut during the remodel. It will take a bit more work to fix the problem. 

Zach installed a lift in the bathroom. It runs from the shower to the toilet. This lift was from the same set that was installed in the bedroom last week. We are so grateful to have this equipment and want the person who donated it to us to know how appreciative we are! 




Annette and Blake accompanied Jeff back to the hospital. It's a little nerve wracking lately for Annette to leave him. Because he has a helper during the day the nursing staff tends to neglect him to care for higher maintenance patients. While this is understandable, it causes worry for when no one is there with Jeff. 

We are getting more anxious to have him home and are so thankful it's coming up. While it's been great for Jeff to be at the hospital and to have his therapy so regularly, we are ready to get things back to some sort of normalcy at home. It will be a huge adjustment for all of us, but we will make the best of it!